Kegel Exercises Done Right: A Step-by-Step Guide

October 15, 2026 By Hiba Gul
Dr. Hiba Gul - MyLadyDoc

Kegel exercises train the pelvic floor muscles that support the bladder, uterus and bowel. They are a first-line approach for stress urinary incontinence, the leakage that happens with coughing, sneezing or lifting.

Quick Answer

To do a Kegel, tighten the muscles you would use to stop passing urine or gas, lift gently inward and upward, hold for a few seconds, then fully relax. Repeat in sets. Avoid squeezing the buttocks, thighs or abdomen, and do not practise while passing urine. Regular practice for weeks to months is usually needed.

Find the Right Muscles

  • Imagine stopping the flow of urine or holding in gas
  • You should feel a lift and squeeze inside, not in the buttocks
  • Do not make a habit of stopping urine mid-stream, as it can interfere with emptying

Step by Step

Step 1: Get comfortable

Start lying down or sitting with knees apart.

Step 2: Breathe

Take a relaxed breath in.

Step 3: Squeeze and lift

As you breathe out, tighten and lift the pelvic floor.

Step 4: Hold

Hold for about three to five seconds, building up gradually.

Step 5: Release fully

Relax for the same length of time. Full relaxation is just as important.

Step 6: Repeat

A common routine is about ten repetitions, a few times a day, as advised by your clinician.

Common Mistakes

  • Holding your breath
  • Squeezing the buttocks or thighs
  • Pushing down instead of lifting up
  • Not relaxing between squeezes
  • Doing too many, too soon

Who Should Get Guidance

If you cannot feel the muscles, have pain, or have tight pelvic muscles, a pelvic floor physiotherapist can guide you. Over-tight muscles need relaxation rather than strengthening.

Key Takeaways

  • Identify the right muscles first.
  • Lift, hold and fully release.
  • Breathe and avoid using other muscles.
  • Be consistent for weeks to months.
  • Seek guidance if unsure.

Final Thoughts

Done correctly, Kegels can make a real difference. For a personalised assessment of leakage, you can consult Dr. Hiba Gul at MyLadyDoc in Bangalore.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long before Kegels help?

Many women notice change after several weeks of regular practice.

Can I do Kegels in public?

Yes, once you know the technique, as they are not visible.

Can Kegels make things worse?

If your pelvic muscles are already too tight, they can. Get an assessment if unsure.

How many should I do a day?

Follow the plan your clinician gives you, usually a few sets daily.

Do Kegels help after childbirth?

Yes, they are commonly recommended once you feel ready, with your doctor's go-ahead.

Do I need a device?

Not necessarily. Some women use biofeedback to learn the technique.

Dr. Hiba Gul

About the Author

Dr. Hiba Gul, MBBS, D.G.O

Dr. Hiba Gul is an Obstetrician & Gynaecologist based in Bangalore with over 11 years of experience in women's health, including cosmetic gynaecology, high-risk pregnancy care, and hormonal health. Read her full profile →

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